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Dishing it out

I'm on my way to a three month post stroke evaluation meeting for my husband. We have been married twenty years last month. I've wanted a divorce for six of those last years. I was a coward for five and a half before the separation and the stroke he had while working out one morning in April. I've been taking care of him for the last three months, but that is about to change now because my involvement in his life is beginning to affect his recovery. He wants me to stay married and I cannot and this is distracting him from therapy during a time when everyday counts towards how good of an outcome he eventually has and what his quality of life can be. I stayed to take care of him because of our children and  and because I wanted to insure he had the very best outcome. I also stayed because I love him. It's just not the kind of love that will sustain a marriage. His parents want me out of our home.They took one of our cars while I was away from my home since it had bee